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A Comfort zone is a drug

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Picture Credit - Pinterest/iFunny. Many of us have a passion to follow or a dream to fulfill but we always get trapped by a drug called "Comfort Zone". It hit so hard that you get distracted from your path or goal. You try to come back on track but the dopamine again ask you for the dose and again you get distracted from your goal. For example, you have a job with decent pay but in reality, you don't like that job and you have a passion for music let's say singing but you are doing the job because you need money. Let's say on the 1st of every month you get the salary so the dopamine sends a signal to the brain that you no need to do all the singing stuff and struggle in the music industry, stay with this job, take a nice salary and chill in your life. In this way, you get trapped and you stay in your comfort zone and once it is addicted then it is the same as drugs. What can you do? •Take Decision - Remember, not taking a decision is also a bad decisio...

Don't let the hope die

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When you are trying so much but getting failed or rejected every time, still you decided to move ahead with a smile and a little hope that one-day things will fall into place. I know the situation around you is becoming more complex but still, you're trying to ignore it with the hope that one-day things will fall into place. There are different seasons like summer, winter or monsoon and a single season doesn't last for the whole year similarly these situations are going to change with the time, till then hope that one-day things will fall into place. You must have prayed a lot and the situations are still the same but this doesn't mean that your prayer is not heard. Your time has yet to come and it will be incredible, till then hope that one-day things will fall into place. Even I am tired of this situation around me but I am writing this blog because I have a little hope that one-day things will fall into place. See y'all in the next blog, Cheers!

ज़माना क्या कहेगा ?

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"ज़माना क्या कहेगा" इस एक वाक्य ने कितनों को सफल होने से रोक दिया, कितनों के सपने तोड़ दिए और इसी वाक्य ने कितनों को पहला कदम बड़ाने से ही रोक दिया। हमे बचपन से ही सिखाया जाता है की इस तरीके से खाना है, इस तरीके से उठना बैठना है, पढ़ाई लिखाई कर के एक अच्छी नौकरी में लग जाना है। अगर इसके बाहर हम कुछ करना चाहे तो "ज़माना क्या कहेगा" हमने अपने आप को इतना हवाले कर दिया है इस ज़माने के, की सपने में भी अगर हम कुछ आउट ऑफ द बॉक्स करना चाहे तो एक आवाज आती है "ज़माना क्या कहेगा" हम इक्कीसवीं सदी में जी रहे है लेकिन आज भी एक बच्चा अपने परिवार को अपने सपने या उसके शौक के बारे में खुल के चर्चा नहीं कर सकता क्योंकि बच्चे को भी अच्छी तरह से पता है कि अगर मैंने अपने शौक या सपने बताए तो सामने से यही जवाब आयेगा "ज़माना क्या कहेगा" बेटी की शादी में खाना अच्छा नही बने तो "ज़माना क्या कहेगा" परीक्षा में नंबर कम आय या फेल होगए तो "ज़माना क्या कहेगा" असल में देखा जाय तो हम इस ज़माने के चक्रवियू में कुछ इस कदर फस चुके है जहां से निकलना मु...

Feeling lost?

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Picture Credit- Pexels. I chose this topic because I am going through this situation presently.   Have you been in such a situation where you have no idea of what's happening around you and then you just feel lost? There might be an end number of reasons like not enjoying what you are performing or things are not taking place the way it planned or you just don't know where will you head to. It is a phase of life but we make it more complicated by overthinking or over analysing the situation and it is normal, every human does the same thing even I overthink a lot. To come out from this situation, you might have searched videos on the internet or you might be reading some articles/blogs like this and even I had done the same thing but it didn't work. After a lot of experiments and personal experiences, I found only 2 effective ways,  Self-Talk and Iterating the thing you love the most or you don't get bored doing again and again. 1. Self-Talk- Honestly, this has helped m...